Showing Kindness to Myself


In today’s busy world, prioritizing kindness towards oneself often takes a backseat to caring for others. However, learning to be kind to ourselves is vital for fostering a healthy relationship with ourselves, promoting mental and emotional well-being, and asserting our worth and dignity. Research shows that self-compassion leads to lower levels of anxiety and depression while increasing happiness and life satisfaction. By extending the same care and understanding to ourselves as we do to others, we cultivate resilience, self-empowerment, and a deeper sense of fulfillment in life.


  1. Find a quiet and comfortable space where you can sit or lie down without distractions.
  2. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths, allowing yourself to relax and let go of any tension in your body.
  3. Bring your attention to yourself and your own well-being. Recognize that you deserve kindness and compassion just as much as anyone else.
  4. Begin by silently reciting the following phrases to yourself:
    • “May I be kind to myself in times of difficulty.”
    • “May I accept myself as I am, with all my strengths and imperfections.”
    • “May I forgive myself for any mistakes or shortcomings.”
    • “May I be patient and gentle with myself as I navigate life’s challenges.”
  5. As you repeat each phrase, imagine a warm and comforting light surrounding you, emanating from within your heart.
  6. Allow yourself to feel the warmth and tenderness of this light, bathing you in a sense of love and acceptance.
  7. If your mind wanders or if you encounter any self-critical thoughts, gently bring your focus back to the phrases and the feeling of kindness towards yourself.
  8. Take a few moments to simply bask in the feelings of self-compassion and care.
  9. When you’re ready, slowly open your eyes and take a deep breath, carrying the sense of kindness and compassion with you as you continue your day.


Remember, practicing self-compassion is not always easy, but it is a powerful way to nurture your well-being and cultivate a deeper sense of connection with yourself. Allow yourself to return to this exercise whenever you need a reminder of your own worthiness and the importance of being kind to yourself.

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